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Thursday, April 16, 2009

Strengths Quest: My Signature Themes

I took this online test (through an accredited website) last year. It's almost scary how true these are. These 5 themes describe me perfectly, and have shown me why I do certain things, and why I look to the future so much!
 
 
FOCUS
“Where am I headed?” you ask yourself. You ask this question every day. Guided by this theme of Focus, you need a clear destination. Lacking one, your life and your work can quickly become frustrating. And so each year, each month, and even each week you set goals. These goals then serve as your compass, helping you determine priorities and make the necessary corrections to get back on course. Your Focus is powerful because it forces you to filter; you instinctively evaluate whether or not a particular action will help you move toward your goal. Those that don’t are ignored. In the end, then, your Focus forces you to be efficient. Naturally, the flip side of this is that it causes you to become impatient with delays, obstacles, and even tangents, no matter how intriguing they appear to be. This makes you an extremely valuable team member. When others start to wander down other avenues, you bring them back to the main road. Your Focus reminds everyone that if something is not helping you move toward your destination, then it is not important. And if it is not important, then it is not worth your time. You keep everyone on point.
 
RESPONSIBILITY
Your Responsibility theme forces you to take psychological ownership for anything you commit to, and whether large or small, you feel emotionally bound to follow it through to completion. Your good name depends on it. If for some reason you cannot deliver, you automatically start to look for ways to make it up to the other person. Apologies are not enough. Excuses and rationalizations are totally unacceptable. You will not quite be able to live with yourself until you have made restitution. This conscientiousness, this near obsession for doing things right, and your impeccable ethics, combine to create your reputation: utterly dependable. When assigning new responsibilities, people will look to you first because they know it will get done. When people come to you for help—and they soon will—you must be selective. Your willingness to volunteer may sometimes lead you to take on more than you should.
 
FUTURISTIC
“Wouldn’t it be great if ...” You are the kind of person who loves to peer over the horizon. The future fascinates you. As if it were projected on the wall, you see in detail what the future might hold, and this detailed picture keeps pulling you forward, into tomorrow. While the exact content of the picture will depend on your other strengths and interests—a better product, a better team, a better life, or a better world—it will always be inspirational to you. You are a dreamer who sees visions of what could be and who cherishes those visions. When the present proves too frustrating and the people around you too pragmatic, you conjure up your visions of the future and they energize you. They can energize others, too. In fact, very often people look to you to describe your visions of the future. They want a picture that can raise their sights and thereby their spirits. You can paint it for them. Practice. Choose your words carefully. Make the picture as vivid as possible. People will want to latch on to the hope you bring.
 
SIGNIFICANCE
You want to be very significant in the eyes of other people. In the truest sense of the word you want to be recognized. You want to be heard. You want to stand out. You want to be known. In particular, you want to be known and appreciated for the unique strengths you bring. You feel a need to be admired as credible, professional, and successful. Likewise, you want to associate with others who are credible, professional, and successful. And if they aren’t, you will push them to achieve until they are. Or you will move on. An independent spirit, you want your work to be a way of life rather than a job, and in that work you want to be given free rein, the leeway to do things your way. Your yearnings feel intense to you, and you honor those yearnings. And so your life is filled with goals, achievements, or qualifications that you crave. Whatever your focus—and each person is distinct—your Significance theme will keep pulling you upward, away from the mediocre toward the exceptional. It is the theme that keeps you reaching.
 
STRATEGIC
The Strategic theme enables you to sort through the clutter and find the best route. It is not a skill that can be taught. It is a distinct way of thinking, a special perspective on the world at large. This perspective allows you to see patterns where others simply see complexity. Mindful of these patterns, you play out alternative scenarios, always asking, “What if this happened? Okay, well what if this happened?” This recurring question helps you see around the next corner. There you can evaluate accurately the potential obstacles. Guided by where you see each path leading, you start to make selections. You discard the paths that lead nowhere. You discard the paths that lead straight into resistance. You discard the paths that lead into a fog of confusion. You cull and make selections until you arrive at the chosen path—your strategy. Armed with your strategy, you strike forward. This is your Strategic theme at work: “What if?” Select. Strike.


Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Hey Jealousy

FYI I'm not gluten-intolerant. What a huge relief!!!

 

 

So today, another person got engaged. I swear, it's happening left and right and I'm caught somewhere in between being incredibly jealous of them and being content with not being engaged right now.

I tallied it up, and there are 5 people I know of that are married, and 9 more that are engaged... and every single one of them have been together with their significant other less than the amount of time Phillip and I have. None of the married couples are older than us, 1 engaged couple is 3 years older than us, and 4 are 1 year older than us. So even the whole age thing isn't a fair enough explanation. Very interesting...

Some days I want to be engaged so badly, and some days I'm glad I'm not yet. I have reasons for both. But for now, I'm going to wait. I'm going to wait because I trust Phillip to know when the time is right and when we're ready. I trust him.


Thursday, March 19, 2009

I find out in the next couple of days if I have Celiac Disease (gluten-intolerance).

 

 

Please, please, PLEASE pray that the test comes back negative.

 

If I do have the disease, my life will forever be changed and I will miss out on the foods I love so dearly. Not to mention, when I become pregnant later in life, it would be extremely difficult to have a "normal" pregnancy.

 

Please pray.


Tuesday, February 24, 2009

He's Gone

Her hero, her protector, her dad - is gone.

What do you say in a time like this? Do you try to comfort? Let her talk? Be the distraction? Or leave her alone?

I can't even imagine what it would be like to lose a parent so abruptly. I mean yeah, they knew this may be a possibility but to be told he has a couple of weeks and lose him in a matter of days... that's rough.

My heart breaks and aches for her.

It makes me so sad to know that she's hurting and there's nothing I can do to fix it or even make it slightly better.

The memorial service is on Saturday. I'm going to go. Did I really know him all that well? Not really. In fact, the rare times I actually did see him or talk to him were when I was with her. I must say that all I remember is a dad that loved his daughter with every ounce of his being.

But I'm going to the service for her. I'm going to let her know that I will always be there for her and be a rock if she needs a rock, a shoulder if she needs a shoulder, a hug if she needs a hug, or a silent friend if she needs a silent friend. This weekend is going to be all about her. She needs me and I'm going to be there. Even if I don't see her at all except from a distance at the service, knowing that I'll be standing by just in case makes me feel useful.

She's been there for me several times in my life and knows things that nobody else does. It's my time to return the favor.


Thursday, February 05, 2009

I have a second blog now:

 

www.phillandash.blogspot.com

 

I know it may not interest any of you, but I figured I'd give you guys the option of following it. It's about me and Phillip.



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